We are all flawed and imperfect...
Others are torn and broken..
We often commit mistakes and sometimes hurt other people unconsciously. There are things in life we stand up and will always fight for even if it will be contrary to the opinions of others. We break rules, promises and hearts. We lie, retaliate and speak our wrong thoughts out. These are negative aspects of our character that justifies our being human..
All of these are partial make-ups of the quintessence of our being which makes us different from the other.. There are moments that we just happen to ponder on our being who we are. we sometimes neglect it and more often than not, we tend to hate ourselves for who we came to be...
Despite all of these, we all deserve to love and be loved. Did it ever cross your mind to ask if there will be someone willing to embrace our totality and not grumble on things we are not? when we ourselves at times hate the person that we are.
We can never find a perfect partner just the way we want them to be. We cannot create a person we envisioned to have out of them. We might just end up creating a monster out of who they used to be.
In the course of finding the perfect mate, it is important to consider the ability of your partner to fully accept who we are.. They need to love us not just because of the things that makes us lovable but also for the things most people hate about us... It is never a question of who will love us for the good that we are but most often, we will end up asking a more substantial question; who will stay and continue to love us after witnessing our imperfections?
That is one mysterious element of LOVE we all are experiencing yet we all take for granted. We must learn to accept the person as what he/she is. Loving is a matter of accepting. A matter of realizing that we are just humans and we sometimes fail. A even if we fail, that special someone would still be there, willing to take us no matter how unacceptable we may be in the eyes of other people. Indeed love is a many splendored thing, We just need to unfold each reality as we continue our quest in this journey to each others heart.
Others are torn and broken..
We often commit mistakes and sometimes hurt other people unconsciously. There are things in life we stand up and will always fight for even if it will be contrary to the opinions of others. We break rules, promises and hearts. We lie, retaliate and speak our wrong thoughts out. These are negative aspects of our character that justifies our being human..
All of these are partial make-ups of the quintessence of our being which makes us different from the other.. There are moments that we just happen to ponder on our being who we are. we sometimes neglect it and more often than not, we tend to hate ourselves for who we came to be...
Despite all of these, we all deserve to love and be loved. Did it ever cross your mind to ask if there will be someone willing to embrace our totality and not grumble on things we are not? when we ourselves at times hate the person that we are.
We can never find a perfect partner just the way we want them to be. We cannot create a person we envisioned to have out of them. We might just end up creating a monster out of who they used to be.
In the course of finding the perfect mate, it is important to consider the ability of your partner to fully accept who we are.. They need to love us not just because of the things that makes us lovable but also for the things most people hate about us... It is never a question of who will love us for the good that we are but most often, we will end up asking a more substantial question; who will stay and continue to love us after witnessing our imperfections?
That is one mysterious element of LOVE we all are experiencing yet we all take for granted. We must learn to accept the person as what he/she is. Loving is a matter of accepting. A matter of realizing that we are just humans and we sometimes fail. A even if we fail, that special someone would still be there, willing to take us no matter how unacceptable we may be in the eyes of other people. Indeed love is a many splendored thing, We just need to unfold each reality as we continue our quest in this journey to each others heart.
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